Yes I have been thrown lately
by the whole ASD assessment, and my old money worries are still lurking in the
background occasionally rearing their ugly head and filling me with dread, but
by no means does that mean I’ve thrown the whole Laws of Attraction thing out
of the window. Why would I? Up until now I’ve been a total worrier and negative
thinker and it has had a limiting effect on my life – I completely believe
that. Therefore I’ve nothing to lose but a lot to gain by changing tracks and
trying a new approach.
Yes this has been challenging
over the last few weeks, it’s been hard to stay positive and I’ve often felt
cursed again and thought why bother? But why bother indeed? Well, there are now
two little souls in my life who deserve the very best I can possibly give them.
That’s why bother. Giving up is just not an option.
So to get me back into the
right mindset I thought it might help me to revisit the notes I made from “Ordering
from the Cosmic Kitchen” – I’m feeling a little burned out and negative today
so I could do with a positivity shot. So here goes. On the basis that our
thoughts are continually creating our experiences:
- Think about what previous “orders” (by which I mean thoughts, wishes,
beliefs) you have sent out to the universe that are now manifesting in
your life. For me it’s that I’m cursed, that I can only get so far in
life, my possibilities are limited – and I can see the effects clearly of
those beliefs. But on the positive side – I wanted an unconventional
rocker husband – check; that summer baby I dared to ask for is now due in
mid June; I wanted ragdoll cats and ended up with two who were both free;
I wanted to find somewhere to live where there was a real community. All
of these things came true.
- Don’t concentrate on what you don’t want, concentrate on what you
do want. “What you resist persists”
- Identify any current negative thought patterns that are holding
you back. When you find yourself thinking negatively or about what you don’t
want, consciously turn these thoughts around and create a positive
affirmation to counteract these, i.e. “I don’t want Taters to be diagnosed
with autism” can be turned in “I trust that Taters will continue to grow
and flourish, I do my best to encourage him and help his confidence grow.”
Keep repeating these until you clear out negative thought patterns.
- Now set yourself new affirmations for what you want now
- Then TRUST that it will happen. Be specific about what you want to
ensure you get the right order.
- Orders need to be positive, present tense and personal – State your
affirmations as though they have already happened, said “I have… I receive…
I am”. If you state your affirmations in the future tense, they will stay
in the future.
- Because emotions amplify and charge your wishes, include words
that convey positive, energetic feelings “It feels wonder that… I am so
happy and excited to be…” Really feel your affirmations as you say them.
- Trust that it will happen at the right time and let it go.
- Fully believe that you deserve to have a wonderful life. Don’t
hold yourself back with doubts.
- Every day take some time to make a gratitude list. Cultivating the
“attitude of gratitude” will create wonderful miracles in your life.
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